Self-Management
Self-management is the foundation of success. I am saying this because if you’re unable to manage yourself, then it is impossible to manage anything else. It is easy to manage someone, but when it comes to you, it will be somewhat difficult. Others can listen to you and do work as per your instructions. Because they think of it as advice or work. You can’t do work continuously without proper discipline. Discipline is the term that comes in a way. You should maintain your own discipline. No one is rewarding you for doing the work. Only your inner motivation will forces to do it. Today, one trend is going on, and it is of “Mentor” I surely say that be your own mentor because no one is free to mentor you except your teacher and parents.
Many personalities have given management learnings. But my favourite one is Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj. He is a very well known Managament Guru. Why I specifically mention him. Because is not born in a family that already had Swarajya. He built Swarajya at a young age. He had good knowledge of networking, how to manage himself, and how to manage all of Swarajya. He made the Asthapradhan Mandal in his kingdom. He was well-known in all fields of knowledge and also in techniques of battle. He created specific departments in his time. Every department had to report to him what they had done. He personally managed all things. They didn’t keep third person to operate everything.
Don’t run from taking responsibility. Responsibilities make you strong because they never teach you to regret a situation. If you want a purposeful life, take responsibility. Don’t wait for guidance. Many people wait for someone; they always want someone to come and guide me for the situation and how to deal with the problem. Experience is the best teacher. But never deny taking advice from experienced people. Responsibility builds self-discipline. You will become aware of your own life and what is going on.
Before moving forward, I want to introduce you to Strengths and weaknesses. Do find your own strengths and weaknesses also. It makes you aware of what qualities and values you pursue. Understand your priorities in life and incorporate efforts to achieve your success. Self-awareness comes through small achievements. Set small targets to complete. With proper discipline, try to complete them on time. It gives you a dopamine rush. Dopamine is a rewarding hormone that gives you motivation for upcoming tasks.
Always manage your time like a businessman. If you see any businessman, they respect their time rigorously. They set daily targets or a priority list. They don’t waste time on web series and movies. For the fun part, they spend time on sports or the gym. They consider health as important as money. Focus on every small to big task. Do every task at the proper time; it makes you a best self-management attitude. At night, before going to bed, review your day and what you have done throughout the whole day. Do it regularly; it improves your memory and concentration.
Most of the successful people have a strong mindset. They don’t get affected by anything. They also don’t have time to find flaws in others. They are in a growth state where they only see the important facts in life. Most of them fail at some steps, but instead of regret, they learn from it and avoid that mistake.
Life flourishes due to some Goals. You should have a vision board in front of you while living life. Don’t let others criticise your activities; be your own manager.
